Apa perbezaan berkawan dgn org yg straight or tak straight?

Semlm masa berborak dgn kapal dlm kereta, dia isu ini entah mcm mana tah boleh manjadi satu topic. Adakah kiter terlalu memilih utk berkawan dgn golongan yg senget or golongan yg straight?

As introduction, I would like to give a statement, if we put aside one of the subject in out life, which is sexual orientation, and secondly gender, all human being are the same.

Originally, all of us have no one in our life to so-called “those with the same sexual orientation” – yeah if we are those who prefer our own gender as life partner. Most of us, the first time we meet out first “senget love”, that particular person la yg share same orientation kan?

I don’t want to take others as example, might as well just use myself. I never identify myself as a hard-core “woman-preferring” woman, but I think my case would be on 50-50-basis. I am not that prone to man or woman. I had boyfriends (handsome tu). I would say my nature contributes 50% and the other 50% would be “nurture”. This is a topic on its own, better not to go into further detail. At the earlier stage of my life (until now) I still have my closest friends who are now married with husband and kids. Off course I would not reveal myself but they only know that we are the closest type of friend (yeah, kapal and I). We still hang out together and very close at heart, because we share the same value and the same interest.

But something extra beautiful about having the (priority -->)“sharing same value, share same interest” senget friends (compare to -->“sharing same value, share same interest” unsenget friends)…. They understand your situation, you can be as true to them, they know that you are partners (not just the closest type of friends), they’ve been in the same shoes before, they won’t doubt certain facts that you present, they know what to advise you (in a direct way). True enough, no matter who our friends are, it won’t change the degree of “kesengetan” kita, but when we have the A+ things to value (in having senget friends), why must we purposely look for B+ or C? Previously this was also my conflict, but since the day I learn that I love A+, I would always go for my forever A+.

Nota kaki:

Well, ramai jugak org senget yg kiter tak share the same value and interest kan?
To be friends’ hanya sbb sexual orientation, I would say no.

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